So with the first example (either with the feta sandwich incident or with another meal, or with 'what clothes to wear'), compare the flow of activities and inputs with our picture of the mountain stream (referring back to refresh your memory). As the 'choice is made' and the clothes are put on, or the meal is made, are there any environmental inputs, availability issues, 'things-which-go-well-with-other-things' factors, seasonal inputs? Have a good look, and after all these have been looked into, consider carefully: is there anything there remaining that can be traced back to any individual autonomous 'I'?Not sure in the first one but in the second I would say no one, just life.
You didn't report back on the 'Looking Into Resistance' exercise. Did you do it? What happened?