Postby Matty318 » Thu Jan 13, 2022 6:13 pm
Hi Jon,
OK sure of course , it seems that kepping on track here is the order of the day , it appears we got off course her somewhat!!
Control,
Control is a set of thoughts and assumptions that is very similar to sense of self. eg.i control the car when driving. Reality is the car is driven and all processes that are done simultaneously are carried out in an automatic fashion in order for this to happen , control happens before thought comes after and claims the control.
Or i control the sweet cupboard , a set of rules are set for accees to the cupboard , rules are adhered to or broken and I am in control of the project. Reality is communication happens and then life happens , actions happen by household members and actions happen by me regardless of rules being broken or adhered to. These things happen spontaneously with the flow of life.
Choice.
Choosing happens , the choice of do i go to see a customer now or tomorrow? Commentary happens and discusses the pros and cons of each scenario , the moment i need to turn right to not see the customer or left to see the customer approaces and without any further commentary i turn right , the customer will be seen tomorrow - commentary and choice/decision are not aligned as convincing as they seem to be one and the same, the choice is made automatically at the time before thought and commentary make that decision.
Decision
A decision was made to go swimming this evening with a new group , although i have been round the houses in terms of attempting to attend twice before christmas , both time something came up and have had numerous emails discussing different isuues since a decion was made that i will join the group. The initial decision was never thought , it was known that this was the correct course. Decisions arent always this clearly seen before thought claiming the glory but independant they are.