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Jadzia
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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jadzia » Mon Mar 02, 2020 9:30 am

My story (thoughts) in the moments have this overarching back story that is Jay made up of values, beliefs, identity, and so on...
Challenge each of the values, belief, identities. Don't let them slip by.
The add-ins seem to be linked or connected to the back story...
How real is the back story, right now?
What does this tell about the add-ins?
If I sit and watch my story with my eyes shut and feel the emotions attached...like I am looking for the butterfly. It doesn't seem to matter. It is similar to watching a thought unravel in mediation.
Just be aware that sometimes pushing away happens so speedily that what one wanted to look at disappears in a blink of an eye and can be misjudged as unravelling.
And unravelling can happen in a blink of an eye. :-)
To find out which is which takes a while.

When looking you might find physical sensations, emotions and thought. It is always good to stick to sensations and find the sweet spot between story and emotions, there flaring up and disappearing again can happen.
It is valuable to see to what reaction is happening and what story unfolds round this.
However, other times I am questioning have really gone through or am I just imagining and believing without seeing.
How about this right now?

Love,
Jadzia

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Jay433
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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jay433 » Mon Mar 02, 2020 11:14 pm

Challenge each of the values, belief, identities. Don't let them slip by.
I do challenge....there is something which I find challenging...See PM
How real is the back story, right now?
What does this tell about the add-ins?
As a whole, my back story isn't real but there are occasions when I feel it matters or get attached to a part of it. See PM
Add-inns are illusions or blanks that give meaning to a story.
However, other times I am questioning have really gone through or am I just imagining and believing without seeing.

How about this right now?
The butterfly is a perfect metaphor - I feel further away than when I first started. I understand the theory and have had glimpses (of the butterfly) and was making progress but I feel like I am missing something now. It's like believing I know how to look for the butterfly and understanding its there but cannot find it again.

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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jadzia » Tue Mar 03, 2020 3:07 pm

I understand the theory and have had glimpses (of the butterfly) and was making progress but I feel like I am missing something now. It's like believing I know how to look for the butterfly and understanding its there but cannot find it again.
one can overthink too.

See there is nothing to find, nothing to search for.
That what is - always been the same.
Only
there is a belief in the story, a listening to it as if it would have the sound of truth.
There is nothing to loose, either.

Sending you a pm now.

Love,
Jadzia

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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jay433 » Tue Mar 03, 2020 10:52 pm

See there is nothing to find, nothing to search for.
That what is - always been the same.
Only
there is a belief in the story, a listening to it as if it would have the sound of truth.
There is nothing to loose, either.
Your message me smile and from that moment I got it...Its been here all along.

Love,
Jay

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Jadzia
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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jadzia » Wed Mar 04, 2020 8:42 am

Your message me smile and from that moment I got it...Its been here all along.
It is so cute how we all look for the extra life changing moment, lol, when for most it is a quiet thing and you find you just have a new normal.

So you can say without doubt that you looked through the illusion?

If you like you can answer our Lets check it questions, which point to some more things and are shown to other guides.

Love,
Jadzia

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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jay433 » Thu Mar 05, 2020 12:09 am

So you can say without doubt that you looked through the illusion?
Yes, there has been a subtle change in perception. You said you know when you're through, I know but then again there never was a gate :)
If you like you can answer our Lets check it questions, which point to some more things and are shown to other guides.
Yes please, that would be great...

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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jadzia » Thu Mar 05, 2020 8:45 am

Allow me to ask the last questions a bit later.

Let this settle for a few days and then report:
What further insights are happening?
What changes?
What stays the same?
How does it feel to have no story?

Love,
Jadzia

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Re: New Member Seeking a Guide

Postby Jay433 » Thu Mar 05, 2020 10:24 am

OK, will do...

Love,
Jay


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