Im not asking you to explain anything, stop thinking about this, start looking.I can't explain what I is other than as I from thoughts.
There are no words to adequately describe how to see, no maps of how to get there; all I can do is point to where you should look. This is not a mental exercise; all the thinking you can ever do will never get you there. I will give you a clue, because I was also a thinker. Just before I saw it, I suddenly realised that my guide was telling me to LOOK, not to think. When looking happened, it was seen.
What is looking? It is focusing on your Direct Experience. Seeing with the eyes, hearing with the ears, feeling with the skin, smelling with the nose, tasting with the tongue. Sensation, before it is judged and labeled, is direct experience.
When you keep just looking at what really happens seeing will occur, can happen any time, during any activity, nothing has to be done or changed or understood or explained first...