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by Kaliva
Sun Aug 23, 2020 2:56 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Yes, I did it again. It was difficult at the beginning, but after I left the thoughts about myself and everything else raining aside, I fell into the darkness ... In my imagination I was somewhere high and I saw many people, animals below me. This time I saw a sheep grazing on grass and entered it. ...
by Kaliva
Fri Aug 21, 2020 8:08 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

So ... I'm thinking of one of your "Hmmm." It's about what I wrote "While we are alive, we all hear, see, feel with the body ..." Why is this "Hmmm"? What do you mean? Similar to my awareness of wolves, I thought that this applied to all animals and all living things, respectively. Which means that ...
by Kaliva
Wed Aug 19, 2020 2:42 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

I tried again ... I went to bed, closed my eyes and started pushing my thoughts ... I imagined a screen on which my thoughts are some signs that I can't read, they don't mean anything, I don't understand them .. I focused on exploring the sensations I felt anxious, at times I panicked that I would b...
by Kaliva
Tue Aug 18, 2020 8:53 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

I understand everything with my mind that resists the idea that there is no body and there is no me ... I drive. I talk to people. I'm lying on a bed. I understand what it is about but I can't accept it. My eyes see. My body feels it. I'm someone's friend. Someone is calling me, he wants to talk to ...
by Kaliva
Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:20 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Hey, I'm not sure if it's fun because it scares me a little :) It seems that when we reduce everything to DE we just see, hear, feel with the body. And a lot of it happens in our minds, we set the definitions of things. For example, "I drive a car", reduced to DE = I look + I feel touch to the seat,...
by Kaliva
Thu Aug 13, 2020 8:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

direct experience I think about my thoughts I watch what time it is I'm tired, I'm sleepy I'm lazy I think about writing I watch my hand There is hair on the sheet I read what I wrote, etc. happens in thoughts Should I wash the dishes now or tomorrow? I'm not very sure ... at first I thought they w...
by Kaliva
Thu Aug 13, 2020 8:16 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Can you give me some examples? I have to get a notebook I think about my thoughts I watch what time it is I'm tired, I'm sleepy Should I wash the dishes now or tomorrow? I'm lazy I think about writing I watch my hand There is hair on the sheet I read what I wrote, etc. Find out what really can be k...
by Kaliva
Thu Aug 13, 2020 7:43 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Take a piece of paper and listen to thoughts, mark thoughts which point to other thoughts on one side of the paper and thoughts w´hich point to something which can be experienced to the other side. Do this for five minutes. Share what you find. I'm really amazed by this experiment! it turned out th...
by Kaliva
Wed Aug 12, 2020 8:27 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

"Hm, hm hm .... ok, you can't choose what thoughts go through your mind ... how can you think purposefully, how can you direct thoughts and so on if you can't? Look closely, there are always thoughts telling so, I am doing this or that, but is it what is really happening? " Okay, yes ... I meant we ...
by Kaliva
Mon Aug 10, 2020 7:26 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Hello, here I am again .... Everything is fine, I was very busy these days and it takes me more time to make sense of what you wrote and answer, because my English is not very good. And not just because of the language, I need to focus and consider the answer. I'm here .... I'm ... hahaha .... How m...
by Kaliva
Mon Aug 10, 2020 6:46 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Half an hour ago I sent an answer but I don't see it on the wall. Please write if you see it somewhere. Should I send it again?
by Kaliva
Tue Aug 04, 2020 9:09 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

I understand all this, but isn't this my story? :) if I read the story about a woman with my story I would probably identify with her .... but! ... it won't be my story though ... but it will be the same ... um ... Regarding "Does one choose thouhts? Can you pick what to think?", I don't think we ca...
by Kaliva
Tue Aug 04, 2020 4:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Hallo, Jadzia. I delayed the answer because it was difficult for me to find these recurring thoughts that made me anxious. Maybe they sound like, "I'm alone ... I'm missing something ... I'm missing someone" .... and I start thinking about "someone". Usually for a man. If I'm in a relationship, I'm ...
by Kaliva
Sun Aug 02, 2020 5:50 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

I notice that the strongest and easiest thoughts for me are the anxious thoughts .. As if something is wrong, something is unfinished, something is missing ... Especially when I am alone .. then these thoughts make me sad and I feel like a small child, lost and unloved ... I realize that in reality ...
by Kaliva
Sat Aug 01, 2020 2:09 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 3181

Re: Relationships

Ok, I get it. Thanks.

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