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by Jadzia
Thu Sep 03, 2020 7:28 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Not if was never there. And the doing and the being is still there. And sometimes the sense of a me is still there./quote] Lets clear something up . There is a self in the story, this will always be there, why not? There is no self as in entity, controler ect. The sense of me? Why not, if it is kno...
by Jadzia
Wed Sep 02, 2020 7:36 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

In the moment there is no proof. This is important, you see, all 'proof' which is there is added by thoughts, building the story. No 'essence' of a 'me' here - not a thing you can find and say that's 'me' Right. And still the me isn't lost, is it? In present moment there is only sensation, emotions...
by Jadzia
Mon Aug 31, 2020 7:36 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

I think I'm gradually noticing more. And the resistance thing doesn't seem so powerful. Sounds good. :-) Not much is coming up to work with here. More prevalent are either: stories that suggest a permanence, a characteristic of 'me' - both 'positive' and 'negative' - such as 'I'm not very good at t...
by Jadzia
Sun Aug 30, 2020 7:19 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

It still feels like there is some positive or negative value here. Lovely thought by the way.... ;-) It is ok and for the moment we will leave it at that, you will find that this idea will appear again and again for a while, just rest with it. It feels a bit more like it's ok that it's here today. ...
by Jadzia
Sat Aug 29, 2020 5:14 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

The words are labels, but the physical sensations themselves are not, and the different ones are different. The experience of them feels different. And some feel pleasant while others feel unpleasant. I don't think I'm getting this! The story is too strong. Physical sensations aren't all the same a...
by Jadzia
Fri Aug 28, 2020 3:57 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Maybe I'm struggling to see directly likes / dislikes, resistance / clinging because they are in the story only so can't be seen directly. :-), yay! What happens if a like is fullfilled, what happens if a dislike happens? What is found in DE? Physical sensations called wellbeing, happiness, joy or ...
by Jadzia
Thu Aug 27, 2020 4:57 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 2470

Re: Relationships

No need to stop anything, it is more a gentle disengaging of thoughts, fantasies, they can run in the background. So when engaging happens, fine, no judgement just gentle disengaging again and again. Be happy that you get the moment drifting off happens. And yes, just to stay in the moment, only wit...
by Jadzia
Thu Aug 27, 2020 4:54 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Take all the time you need.

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Wed Aug 26, 2020 7:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Ah yes, I fell for it yet again. that's ok - so no worry - just me pointing at it, lol. LOL Feel like I'm going round in circles. You get the circle pretty tight by now and your observation of what happens is sound. A very good observation you made is that unpleasant must not necessarily be dislike...
by Jadzia
Tue Aug 25, 2020 7:57 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Although some sounds seem to be universally agreed to be disliked - very loud, very high pitched, baby crying - again what they have in common is that the aversion seems to be in base survival program. Careful with assumptions, the "it seems like...". all I see now is 'reading a book' not 'watching...
by Jadzia
Tue Aug 25, 2020 5:18 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 2470

Re: Relationships

Imagination? Thoughts content, not to be found in DE. I'm not sure if I'm experiencing these sensations ... they are so distant and happen on ... I don't know ... who What tells that sensation is distant? For a moment lay down again and just follow sensation, or sensations, just have an eye on them....
by Jadzia
Mon Aug 24, 2020 5:20 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

Like with pain, if all the words are dropped, what remains is a sensation that has some inherent unpleasantness - I mean it's biologically intended to make you rest. Does a sensation know about pleasant and unpleasant? And yes, some reactions are part of the survival programme, direct hits, no stor...
by Jadzia
Sun Aug 23, 2020 7:14 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 2470

Re: Relationships

Don't let yourself be fooled by the easy - easy exercises tend to have lots of layers which can be discovered. :)

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Sun Aug 23, 2020 5:20 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 160
Views: 4690

Re: Ready!

......but it's a deep aching, queasy tired, so not very pleasant even without the story. We call it bone tired in my language.... But here it is .... what if this feeling is just a feeling? What if the word tiredness vanished, doesn't exist? What if the same happened to deep aching, queasy tired? W...
by Jadzia
Sun Aug 23, 2020 3:37 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 70
Views: 2470

Re: Relationships

Dear Kaliva, I loved reading what you wrote though you are walking away from the path we are offering. You are going into the vision world, which is fascinating and exciting, what we do here is so much more prosaic - it is just about the now, this very moment. It is looking for visions against train...

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