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by Ilona
Sat May 18, 2019 7:38 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 153
Views: 3288

Re: looking for clarity

Aha, That’s good to notice that fear is not the evidence of a separate self. Fear arises as thoughts about the future arise. The story arises about me- the character. Why the stories arise? They are simultaneously arising with the feeling, or sensation of the contraction in the body. Notice how mind...
by Ilona
Sat May 18, 2019 2:30 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Thisness
Replies: 10
Views: 307

Re: Thisness

Wonderful :) There are LU Facebook groups for sharing with others after seeing through the illusion of separateness. To get there we ask some ‘final questions’. This forum is purely for those that are seeking FOR something. As you say you are not looking for anything, just to connect with others. If...
by Ilona
Fri May 17, 2019 4:54 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: I’ve been searching a long time now.
Replies: 56
Views: 1451

Re: I’ve been searching a long time now.

Beautifully said What I think now is that when not blinded by the ego, we are intelligence and love, peace and wisdom - life itself. Let’s talk about god. :) Is there a gap between you and god? What happens, if word god is replaced with words like presence, being, aliveness, life, Buddha mind, natur...
by Ilona
Fri May 17, 2019 4:47 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 153
Views: 3288

Re: looking for clarity

Does fear require a separate self to arise?
Does resistance require a separate self to arise?
Is a separate self a cause of suffering? Or does it come up as a story about “me—the character”?
Is story a cause of arus or story is about arus?

What is true in your experience?

Love
by Ilona
Fri May 17, 2019 4:40 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Thisness
Replies: 10
Views: 307

Re: Thisness

Hi Snowyalice,
Lovely to meet you. I will continue conversation with you as Jon has kindly asked for other guide to take over.
Can you tell me, what are you looking for?

Love
by Ilona
Fri May 17, 2019 2:43 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Dgayles Inquiry
Replies: 65
Views: 2227

Re: Dgayles Inquiry

Thank you for reply. Thing is, nothing gets lost. It’s already the case and it has always been the case, there is nothing at all that needs to change. Your life as you know it continues, only the idea that there is a separate self is no longer believed. Just like when a kid realises that santa was f...
by Ilona
Thu May 16, 2019 4:34 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Seeing through me
Replies: 440
Views: 13527

Re: Seeing through me

Lovely, Thank you.
Is there any doubt at all? Or all is plain obvious and clear?
by Ilona
Thu May 16, 2019 2:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Dgayles Inquiry
Replies: 65
Views: 2227

Re: Dgayles Inquiry

Can you welcome frustration and allow it to be here? What shows up when you allow the thought that there really is no Daryth? No person exists as a driver of life? That life is living itself and shows up as everything experienced? When your eyes are open you see colours and shapes. Do you see daryth...
by Ilona
Thu May 16, 2019 2:51 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 153
Views: 3288

Re: looking for clarity

Good work, thank you for sharing. Can you notice that there are two things going on. First is the idea of a separate self. Second is how we meet that which is. Seeing that everything is happening by itself, without a doer does not mean that all that is is met with allowing. We are here focusing in t...
by Ilona
Thu May 16, 2019 2:47 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Sunlit Silence
Replies: 32
Views: 629

Re: Sunlit Silence

Yes, thinking about it like that, that is the only time that it does. Obvious but - mmm. And similarly, now that I mention it, it has just occurred to me that I had an issue last night that was bugging me, which I deflected as it re-occurred, by just identifying it for what it was - a thought. Can ...
by Ilona
Tue May 14, 2019 1:21 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Dgayles Inquiry
Replies: 65
Views: 2227

Re: Dgayles Inquiry

Skeptical is fine. Be as skeptical as you can.
Tell me what happens when you look. Precisely.
When you ask this question -is there I?
What shows up imediately?

Love
by Ilona
Mon May 13, 2019 6:33 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: looking for clarity
Replies: 153
Views: 3288

Re: looking for clarity

Good work, dear Arus.
I have to shake my head several times a day to shake off the drunkenness, just to see clearly, it is not automatic or steady
And that is not happening by itself?

What is he i here that has do this manually?

Are you expecting that happy ever after..?

Love
by Ilona
Mon May 13, 2019 4:25 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Sunlit Silence
Replies: 32
Views: 629

Re: Sunlit Silence

Great, so lets meet that gate. Is there a gate? Is frustration here? Does there need to be a separate self for the tension to show up? Is there I to realise something? Is there I to cross the gate? What shows up when you ask this? (No clue to follow?- frustration is here and that IS the clue.) Love.
by Ilona
Mon May 13, 2019 1:41 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ending of false self and finding Who am I?
Replies: 7
Views: 145

Re: Ending of false self and finding Who am I?

Ok. So once again, what are you looking for?

One bit of advice, write daily.

Love
by Ilona
Sun May 12, 2019 7:58 pm
Forum: ARCHIVES
Topic: Seeing through me
Replies: 440
Views: 13527

Re: Seeing through me

Thank you for answers. We have more digging to do. Can you take your time and really answer question 5 as fully as you can and from your current experience. Write what you notice, not what logically seems right. Or what feels probable.
Love.

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