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by Jadzia
Sun Jan 17, 2021 8:41 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: There's no I
Replies: 50
Views: 889

Re: There's no I

Decision is like another word for thought. Decision is DE (like a thought), but the content of the decision is not DE. Hence, just like a thought just happens, so do decisions. Wait wait wait: Where do you find decision in DE? Smell, colour form, taste, sound, physical sensation, thought are to cho...
by Jadzia
Sun Jan 17, 2021 8:27 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

If you like you can start now to simply sit with emotions. When you feel one, invite it, embrace it and allow it to be.
Just this. It is not about the story just about loving what is and accepting it.

Share what you find.

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Sun Jan 17, 2021 11:37 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Hello
Replies: 16
Views: 202

Re: Hello

Labels and names and dates pop up to describe what is Yes, one of the main functions of thoughts. Is the description of something the something? Like is the word apple the apple? No, you already see that it is just a describtion. Does that what is labeled knows what it is called? Does the know it i...
by Jadzia
Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:35 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Hello
Replies: 16
Views: 202

Re: Hello

One is simply in the present moment. These are old beliefs still maybe. Trying to wrap its head around the whole process using concepts of the old conditioning. There is nothing else but the this very moment. These old beliefs, are they anything more than a repetative part of the story thoughts tel...
by Jadzia
Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:18 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

It seems like it’s mostly kind of a gap or a nothingness. I look for what’s behind the story of Honeybear, and there’s nothing there, and it’s a gap, or like the mental space that happens when you’re startled, except not so brief like that, or like a subtle feeling of falling. I guess when it feels...
by Jadzia
Sat Jan 16, 2021 2:52 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Hello
Replies: 16
Views: 202

Re: Hello

And I don’t expect the being present thing to be constant. Hands are open, now and then something is there and then it is gone again. There are also sudden moments of childish awe. Just being has a fresh- and crispness to it, which one can just be in awe of. That’s what he said before I started thi...
by Jadzia
Sat Jan 16, 2021 11:21 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Hello
Replies: 16
Views: 202

Re: Hello

Just something short right now, more will follow later. There is seeking, right? And something that's looks very much like pushing. Right now is not the moment to do extra exercises, pushing is no go - it is time to let something develope in its own way. So take the heat out, no extras, just observi...
by Jadzia
Sat Jan 16, 2021 11:16 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

Many describe what can be felt as nothing, nothingness. Each word is a concept, but we are fine with this, it is ok, if we want to share we need them words. This is like all other experiences, it happens, comes and goes. Often I get a very subtle feeling that’s sort of like falling, which sometimes ...
by Jadzia
Fri Jan 15, 2021 6:20 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Meditating
Replies: 26
Views: 282

Re: Meditating

The answer I came up with is that nothing would change. It would simply be the story of Erik going through various feelings in bed until he eventually succumbs and feeds his cats. All the thoughts, feelings, and actions would still take place, but the "I" would not be mixed up in all of it, there w...
by Jadzia
Fri Jan 15, 2021 6:17 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

When I look, no.
For the moment it is the only thing what counts.
When I look at what’s behind the story, there’s a perception of a nothingness or a void.
Yes, one could call it like that.
Look again, is the nothingness empty?

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Fri Jan 15, 2021 9:35 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Meditating
Replies: 26
Views: 282

Re: Meditating

There is nothing wrong with thougths, they are neither to be avoided nor discarded. They can help while building a piece of furniture by Ikea together ;-) and they can 'tell' about fear before a meeting. They have a job. So where is the problem? It is the falling for the story of Eric or Jadzia and ...
by Jadzia
Fri Jan 15, 2021 9:23 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

Are this two different items - the experiencer and the experience?

Go on having a loving look at the story and what is behind it and share whatever you find.

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Thu Jan 14, 2021 9:11 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: For Jadzia - Big steps forward
Replies: 123
Views: 2343

Re: For Jadzia - Big steps forward

But there might also be a thought before the decision: "I'm going to eat X...." That's the bit I can't figure out. Yeah, that is the tricky bit. We are so used to follow thoughts, believe in them, see ourselves in them, that it is not easy to figure out how they cheat on us. ;-) (...in a manner of ...
by Jadzia
Thu Jan 14, 2021 6:04 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

Ok, lets have a closer look at thoughts. Thoughts themselves are not the problem, they just do their job. Some thoughts help us to figure something out, others assist in being annoyed about a noise. They are neither to be disregarded nor obsessed over. They are more like offerings to be used or not....
by Jadzia
Thu Jan 14, 2021 8:25 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Seeking guidance
Replies: 93
Views: 1213

Re: Seeking guidance

Yes. Lots of times sound seems to flow through me, but this had the added element of seeing that I wasn’t having to resist something that I didn’t like. I didn’t know that I would have had that kind of resistance until I noticed that it wasn’t there. Non restisting is sort of the natural state. Rem...

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