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by Jadzia
Thu Oct 01, 2020 6:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 62
Views: 1909

Re: Relationships

I don't know exactly ... things like "come to me", "you're very sweet", "you have to eat", "don't do this, do that" ... things like that. Is that what you mean? Hm, no, more in the line of the teaching what the world is like, like "you are Cindy, I am mom". Though " you are very sweet" is how we le...
by Jadzia
Thu Oct 01, 2020 6:43 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

I love your way of handling the situation. Go Girl and become healthy again!

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Wed Sep 30, 2020 2:57 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

Thanks for the clarification about thoughts and awareness. I'm not 'seeing' no self / no separation all the time....., Strictly speaking: one can't see no self.One can only stop believing the stories built about a self. ;-) In the beginning reminders are needed, like asking questions and using DE, b...
by Jadzia
Tue Sep 29, 2020 8:49 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 62
Views: 1909

Re: Relationships

And how does this happen? Isn't it natural for him to start thinking of himself as a separate self? How else would it be? It's hard for me to imagine it ... Easy to find out. Do you have kids around? If not observe on the streets. What do the parents do? What is one of the first things you learn. W...
by Jadzia
Mon Sep 28, 2020 6:55 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

I guess all the ordinary stuff of life has to carry on, so an equilibrium is needed / happens... We love making it difficult for ourselves with telling us that once we have reached ..... (add whatever you like) life will be ..... (again add whatever you like). A good example is "Once I've seen thro...
by Jadzia
Sun Sep 27, 2020 5:43 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

I've seen it written that 'once it has been seen, it can't be unseen' so feeling a bit confused/frustrated. Comparing is a pattern most of us know pretty well..... Seeing it and living it as in a natural/normal state are two different shoes. For many a people the seeing starts happening and and the...
by Jadzia
Fri Sep 25, 2020 4:44 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

I'm definitely fighting fewer 'internal battles' with my 'self', and if they do happen I don't take them very seriously. Sounds good. I don't seem to have that complete certainty I've seen with others, but maybe it's a case of keeping checking, verifying... There is no dead line here, there is all ...
by Jadzia
Fri Sep 25, 2020 8:46 am
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 62
Views: 1909

Re: Relationships

It's like I've been looking at this body since I was born, looking at others, "It's you," looking at myself, and saying, "It's me. Lets have a look. Does anyone know the words for you or me shortly after been born? Actually a baby isn't able to differentiate between itself and the mother. You can c...
by Jadzia
Thu Sep 24, 2020 1:33 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 62
Views: 1909

Re: Relationships

es, yes ... That's what I meant. The error is in google translator. Good. :-), yes Google translate has its moments... I thought about the location of the "I" and came to the conclusion that I would only point to my body. This body is me. But where is "I" in my mind? I can't determine it. There are...
by Jadzia
Wed Sep 23, 2020 4:46 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

Calm, somewhere deep down. Like everything is ok. Beautiful. Then the thoughts slide to one or another of the '2 perspectives' and it seems to be 'gone' - though obviously that can't be the case - and it feels uncomfortable compared to the previous moment. If possible stay curious in situations lik...
by Jadzia
Mon Sep 21, 2020 7:08 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

Looking today, I think it's because the story being told about people - the moment we see them - is so strong. You see a stranger in the street and immediately there are assumptions about them, judgements, comparisons - very habitual. Immediately thoughts create a 'person' with a story, they catego...
by Jadzia
Sun Sep 20, 2020 7:41 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

Hope you had a good weekend :-) Thanks, I did. Please spend lots of time in the garden!!!! It seems to give you the extra bit of relaxation needed. It has felt so solid before, with inside and outside. But in actual experience there are just some sensations felt, not 'a body'. Not solid, no inside ...
by Jadzia
Sat Sep 19, 2020 7:22 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

The space feels continuous - like it permeates/underlies/is the fabric of both body and ceiling and everything else, extending out and out.
I love that you sticked to it.
No difference.
Is there a body or a ceiling in the moment?

Love,
Jadzia
by Jadzia
Fri Sep 18, 2020 7:05 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Ready!
Replies: 123
Views: 3448

Re: Ready!

Only thoughts know whether I am feeling my hand or the table. Do thoughts know anything? Can they? They do offer information, yes, but knowing? It is possible for a few moments to just feel it as sensation without thoughts of hand or table at all, although the mind seems to want to automatically sh...
by Jadzia
Thu Sep 17, 2020 9:14 pm
Forum: THE GATE
Topic: Relationships
Replies: 62
Views: 1909

Re: Relationships

If I imagine this, I feel both good and strange. Yes, it is liberating and it is strange because this is oposite to everything you believed up to now. Is this what you meant by weird? It is good to be aware if fear appears, doubt, akwardness or whatever - we can look into everything. Do I have to i...

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